A sleep consultant may be trained in certain methods and have been accredited with a recognised certificate. Some of these will have had a problem with their own child not sleeping, then discovered a method that works for them and shared it with others. Most will use a set technique that they believe is suitable for all children of a certain age i.e. Only works with babies or toddlers, then leave the parents to carry it out by themselves. I always work closely with a parent.
I developed my own methods after working with 100’s of children (aged 0 to 18) and their parents for over 30 years. I start by looking at the overall family situation, when the issue started and how long it has been going on for. I then take some family history and understand what Mum and Dad are experiencing too. I also ask the family to record their child’s sleep and feeding patterns for 3 days prior to starting a programme/home consultation. When I have all this information I begin to work out what is causing the issue and where to start making changes.
Warning -Other methods will work, however don’t be fooled if your child is left to cry himself to sleep, it can create problems further down the line. I primarily work on intuition and strengthen connections between parent and child.
Every child is different and every parent is different, therefore my approach is tailored to the individual family’s needs and routines. I make your sleep recommendations as simple as possible, so parents who like to travel and visit friends often, have a child that is ‘portable’ and able to sleep wherever they are, following the guidelines I provide. The overall basis of my approach is to build connection and doesn’t involve controlled crying or anything that would upset you or your child further. All you need to do is trust the process, I take on your worry, so you can sit back and relax.